Comments on: Sound familiar? http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/blog/2009/12/29/sound-familiar/ Muses, ramblings, and vents on the sexual harassment issue Sun, 18 Jul 2010 14:45:53 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Jennifer, admin http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/blog/2009/12/29/sound-familiar/comment-page-1/#comment-8095 Jennifer, admin Wed, 13 Jan 2010 03:25:59 +0000 http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/blog/?p=1020#comment-8095 Another thing we don't think that happens in Western countries: acid attacks on women. This is something else we tell ourselves only happens in places like India and Afghanistan. This story is about Katie Piper, a former model in the U.K whose face was destroyed by an acid attack orchestrated by her former boyfriend and a friend of his. (This was on 20/20 last week) http://abcnews.go.com/2020/KatiePiper/model-burned-acid-attack-rebuilds-life/story?id=9502972 Also, submitted to our own forum, an attempted acid attack on a stalking victim. He didn't succeed, but the point is he tried. Another story from the United Kingdom http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/speakupse/2009/07/07/acid-stalker/ Granted, these are not stories from the U.S. But I'll bet the U.K. has the same denial about their moral superiority. Another thing we don’t think that happens in Western countries: acid attacks on women. This is something else we tell ourselves only happens in places like India and Afghanistan.

This story is about Katie Piper, a former model in the U.K whose face was destroyed by an acid attack orchestrated by her former boyfriend and a friend of his. (This was on 20/20 last week)

http://abcnews.go.com/2020/KatiePiper/model-burned-acid-attack-rebuilds-life/story?id=9502972

Also, submitted to our own forum, an attempted acid attack on a stalking victim. He didn’t succeed, but the point is he tried. Another story from the United Kingdom

http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/speakupse/2009/07/07/acid-stalker/

Granted, these are not stories from the U.S. But I’ll bet the U.K. has the same denial about their moral superiority.

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By: Jennifer, admin http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/blog/2009/12/29/sound-familiar/comment-page-1/#comment-8050 Jennifer, admin Sun, 10 Jan 2010 19:22:52 +0000 http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/blog/?p=1020#comment-8050 The SHSF (our support group) is dedicated to Judith Coflin, a postal employee who committed suicide in 1995 after chronic sexual harassment and abuse by her colleagues. No one has done a study to gage how extreme and long lasting the effects of sexual harassment can be. From our own survey, I know that suicidal thoughts are common, but have only known of this one suicide, until today. The Times of India reported a few days ago another suicide. H B Mamata, a nurse, killed herself by ingesting "a large number of chloroquine tablets." She did this to escape chronic harassment by Dr. Harish, the medical officer at Bilikere Primary Health Centre(PHC) were Mamata was employed. According to police, Harish made constant sexual overatures to Mamata, whose complaints were ignored by her employer. Even after she was transferred to another clinic, Dr. Harish continued his pursuit, even threatening her "with dire consequences if she failed to heed to him." At no time were any discipline or punishments were ever doled out to Dr. Harish by the PHC. <a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/mysore/Nurse-ends-life-over-sexual-harassment/articleshow/5425192.cms" rel="nofollow">Source</a> Mamata took her own life on Thursday, January 8, 2010. I can tell you right now that medical systems in the U.S. is just as negligent. When I was employed by hospitals, they were not even requiring doctors to attend sexual harassment workshops, viewing this as only necessary for the <em>less educated</em> employee. (So far, 10% of our survey respondents were sexually harassed by a doctor.) In most cases, all abuse of employees by doctors was ignored. Doctors are viewed as godly (even though I never met one that wasn't deeply flawed) and you are expected to just take what they dish out, regardless. In fact, we are so hesitant to hold doctors accountable for their abuses, that we keep blaming the healthcare crisis on insurance companies, and seem to ignore the fact that Healthcare is a profit-driven business, with doctors and hospitals being as greedy, and often as corrupt, as Wallstreet. How can you respect a man or woman who maxes out the insurance of a patient who is expected to die so that they can still make as much money as possible. It's disgusting. ****************** http://www.stalkingawarenessmonth.org/ The SHSF (our support group) is dedicated to Judith Coflin, a postal employee who committed suicide in 1995 after chronic sexual harassment and abuse by her colleagues. No one has done a study to gage how extreme and long lasting the effects of sexual harassment can be. From our own survey, I know that suicidal thoughts are common, but have only known of this one suicide, until today.

The Times of India reported a few days ago another suicide. H B Mamata, a nurse, killed herself by ingesting “a large number of chloroquine tablets.” She did this to escape chronic harassment by Dr. Harish, the medical officer at Bilikere Primary Health Centre(PHC) were Mamata was employed. According to police, Harish made constant sexual overatures to Mamata, whose complaints were ignored by her employer. Even after she was transferred to another clinic, Dr. Harish continued his pursuit, even threatening her “with dire consequences if she failed to heed to him.” At no time were any discipline or punishments were ever doled out to Dr. Harish by the PHC. Source

Mamata took her own life on Thursday, January 8, 2010.

I can tell you right now that medical systems in the U.S. is just as negligent. When I was employed by hospitals, they were not even requiring doctors to attend sexual harassment workshops, viewing this as only necessary for the less educated employee. (So far, 10% of our survey respondents were sexually harassed by a doctor.) In most cases, all abuse of employees by doctors was ignored. Doctors are viewed as godly (even though I never met one that wasn’t deeply flawed) and you are expected to just take what they dish out, regardless.

In fact, we are so hesitant to hold doctors accountable for their abuses, that we keep blaming the healthcare crisis on insurance companies, and seem to ignore the fact that Healthcare is a profit-driven business, with doctors and hospitals being as greedy, and often as corrupt, as Wallstreet. How can you respect a man or woman who maxes out the insurance of a patient who is expected to die so that they can still make as much money as possible. It’s disgusting.

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http://www.stalkingawarenessmonth.org/

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By: Jennifer, admin http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/blog/2009/12/29/sound-familiar/comment-page-1/#comment-7970 Jennifer, admin Tue, 05 Jan 2010 19:50:13 +0000 http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/blog/?p=1020#comment-7970 This article on sexual harassment of Arab women is another example of similar patterns of discrimination that you can see still in the United States, despite how far along we think we are. Arab women are underpaid compared to men, just as U.S. women are. Moreover, Arab women are often expected to submit to sexual attention and advances to succeed on the job, or keep their jobs, just like women in the U.S. From the Arab News: <a href="http://www.arabnews.com/?page=1&section=0&article=130686&d=5&m=1&y=2010&pix=kingdom.jpg&category=Kingdom" rel="nofollow">Sexual harassment main hindrance for women job seekers</a> This article on sexual harassment of Arab women is another example of similar patterns of discrimination that you can see still in the United States, despite how far along we think we are.

Arab women are underpaid compared to men, just as U.S. women are. Moreover, Arab women are often expected to submit to sexual attention and advances to succeed on the job, or keep their jobs, just like women in the U.S.

From the Arab News: Sexual harassment main hindrance for women job seekers

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