What Needs to Happen

February 28th, 2008

Coping, writing and working  through your feelings
I, by no means, have all the answers – but I can share with you how I have gotten through the last 14 months. I’d be lying if I wasn’t honest and didn’t tell you I’ve felt very desperate, very alone at times.
I have started writing and I write […]

You’ve Got To Be Kidding Me

March 1st, 2007

Stupid and Irresponsible Responses To Sexual Harassment
While victims and targets get all the flack, administrators win hands down in the “stupid responses to sexual harassment” contest.  Whether they are over-reacting, or ignoring blatantly serious problems, no one comes close when it comes to irresponsible, ignorant, or just-plain-lazy approaches to the problem.
Of these, administrators in Education are the kings […]

Don’t Foam at the Mouth

February 17th, 2007

“Rabid” Reactions To Sexual Harassment Make Things Worse, Not Better    
I’ve come across this too many times now to keep quiet about it.  While most people who have been harassed really just want the behavior to stop, there is a “type” of victim (as there are “types” of harassers) who really IS just about getting attention.  They are […]

Can women be sexual harassers? The gender double-standard in confronting sexual abuse and harassment

October 26th, 2006

BBC, United Kingdom- After politely but firmly refusing the advances of customer Elizabeth Sykes, 38-year-old Mike (McPherson) became the target of an harassment campaign.
“I had to explain to her, ‘Look I’ve got a young family, I’ve got a position and a job that I would never compromise,’ but it just spurred her on.”
After insisting they […]