Archive for August, 2007

I just don’t know how to keep from blaming myself

Tuesday, August 28th, 2007

Ella 
     I’m sixteen years old.  When school ended for the Summer, I came home and realized I needed gas for my car. 
     After I’d filled up my tank at a local gas station, I got back in my car and was about to pull out when a man pulled in to the slot next to me. [...]

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I don’t know what any of them are going to do next

Tuesday, August 28th, 2007

Brittany, Kansas
     I am 13 yrs old and my neighbor has been harassing me for about 3 months, and  I am not sure if it is over yet.
     When school ended for the Summer, my neighbor, his friend, and little brother, started grabbing me. Then they would yell “nice butt, turn around so i can see the figure” and stuff like [...]

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I’ve been told my being single means I’m “up for grabs”

Saturday, August 18th, 2007

 Nickii, New York   
     I’m an educator. What really disturbs me is my employers didn’t believe one woman when she filed a complaint against the man who later harassed me.  Then after she left, I was assigned to work with the harasser. My employer put me in a  terrible position, I feel.
     It only took him 1 [...]

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I am not fighting this only for me

Tuesday, August 14th, 2007

Laura 
     I was sexually harassed by a man, my boss, whose license plate read The Big Dog. His wife was the HR Manager. He was my husband’s boss as well. Sounds pretty incestuous I know and there was certainly a conflict of interest. This is probably why I didn’t report it for months. I just [...]

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I never got proper justice

Friday, August 10th, 2007

Sara  
     In high school, a pastor’s son became obsessed with having me all to himself and made sexual advances at me, which I rejected.
     He became angry and vowed “if I can’t have her, nobody will.”  His sister even helped trash my reputation by telling him and the entire school that I was a “sex [...]

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Now I am nervous to be at work by myself

Monday, August 6th, 2007

Just A Little Concerned    
     I work the front desk of a full service salon in a busy  area, and are located next door to a bar.
     A few weeks ago I noticed two older men walking by the salon. When the men saw me they began waving and winking at me. At first I thought they were [...]

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I’m scared again

Monday, August 6th, 2007

Scared Grace, Texas
     After over a year in an abusive relationship, I left for good. Never to return.  I moved in with a girlfriend who had a spare room, and tried to move on with my life.   
     One night, I came home late from a night out.  I walked into my bedroom, turned on the light and found my [...]

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I’m afraid that pushing the issue may jeopardize my career

Friday, August 3rd, 2007

Anonymous
     I am a department head at a local government.  I started working several years ago and was promoted to various positions with my most recent “promotion.” 
     Over the last 1.5 years, my manager has made many offensive comments, such as describing the lingerie purchased for a honeymoon, or “you’re hot today.”  He will also stare [...]

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