Sexual Harassment Stories and Experiences

I don’t know what any of them are going to do next

Brittany, Kansas

I am 13 yrs old and my neighbor has been harassing me for about 3 months, and I am not sure if it is over yet.

When school ended for the Summer, my neighbor, his friend, and little brother, started grabbing me. Then they would yell “nice butt, turn around so i can see the figure” and stuff like that.

Then one day they pushed me to the side of my house and brought me to the floor. Once I was on the floor they started grabbing me. I tried kicking and pushing, but they were a lot stronger than me.

Another day, my neighbor stole my cellphone & got my number. Then he would call me all the time. He would also text me. He would say I will pay you to go into my room & I will pay you to suck my ****. I said “No!!”

He would follow me places when I walked or road my bike. He would call my cellphone saying” I’m right out side of your room by the window.”

I don’t know what any of me going to do next. I’m scared that they are going to rape me or something. My friends are scared for me, too.

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8 Responses to “I don’t know what any of them are going to do next”

Marie Says:
August 31st, 2007 at 12:56 am
Brittany, I’m cannot believe what you have to go through. I would encourage you to tell an adult that you trust and feel closest to. I personally would tell one of my parents, most likely my mom, because as a female, she might be able to identify with me most. As difficult and embarrassing as it might be, I’m sure that it would work out for the best. I would definitely tell them immediately- These boys have absolutely no right to touch you or make lewd comments to you.
Brittany Says:
September 4th, 2007 at 6:59 pm
I dont live with my mom. & i feel like there is no one i can tell because my famiyl sint very close. & my grandparents who i live with are stressed out cause my aunt is about ot die & i dont want to give thme any mroe ot worry about.
Odessa Says:
September 6th, 2007 at 7:21 am
Hi Brittany,
As a Mother of 2 children, I feel that you must tell someone, a counselor at school, someone at your church, another neighbor or go to the police and I am sure they will talk to the boys. This can’t go on and you wouldn’t want another girl to go through what you are going through. So someone must know and you shouldn’t have to worry about such things at your age.
Take care and be strong!
Brittany Says:
September 8th, 2007 at 8:06 pm
Some guy on the bus told on him for sexual harassing me & some other girls & he got called ot the office. the assistant principal just said it needs ot stop & he got in no trouble.
RZ: Lost Love Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 1:45 pm
Change your cell phone’s # ASAP!!! And better yet,tell someone IMMEDIATELY! As in NOW!
joanie2112 Says:
September 29th, 2007 at 3:25 am
Dear Brittany:

Your grandparents would be far more stressed out if something happened to you that they could have helped prevent. Talk to them about what is going on.

Don’t pick up when they call you on your cell phone (assuming you have caller ID and recognize the numbers they’re calling from). If they are stupid enough to leave a lewd voice message you’ll have proof for the police and or their parents. If they text you a lewd message save that as well.

It is a shame that these idiots are harassing you like this. All it might take to get it stopped is having their parents find out.
Brittany Says:
October 1st, 2007 at 2:57 pm
My grandparents really cant handle it. the pincipal knows bout his harassing & told him it needs ot stop he didnt listen. & i cant tell any of their parents cuz i dont know all of them & one lives on his own cuz he old enough & the only parents i kno cant speak english. & he odnt call no more cuz he dotn have a cell.
Stephanie Says:
October 2nd, 2007 at 4:08 pm
I had a similar case with a principal, but you need to do something. I wish I had. You said you had friends who were worried about you, tell their parents. Just find an adult who will do something. You can’t let one stupid principal make it so this goes on. You need to find a way to stop this before it gets even more out of control.