Comments on: Maybe he’s too friendly http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/speakupse/2007/12/21/overly-friendly-pharmacist/ Sexual Harassment Stories and Experiences Tue, 14 Oct 2008 04:04:09 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.2 by: katie http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/speakupse/2007/12/21/overly-friendly-pharmacist/#comment-10654 Wed, 26 Mar 2008 18:40:54 +0000 http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/speakupse/2007/12/21/overly-friendly-pharmacist/#comment-10654 I would have to agree with Robin. You are smart for noticing this and doing something about this, like keeping a log via this weblink. Unfortunately, I wasn't as lucky in that my situation got a lot worst and now, I'm in the process of moving. They start with small comments (neighbor) until they can get more of your attention and then before you know it, they will violate your trust in one form or another. There are some great tools for how to handle this situation at this weblink. Great job in protecting yourself. I would have to agree with Robin. You are smart for noticing this and doing something about this, like keeping a log via this weblink. Unfortunately, I wasn’t as lucky in that my situation got a lot worst and now, I’m in the process of moving. They start with small comments (neighbor) until they can get more of your attention and then before you know it, they will violate your trust in one form or another. There are some great tools for how to handle this situation at this weblink. Great job in protecting yourself.

]]> by: Robin http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/speakupse/2007/12/21/overly-friendly-pharmacist/#comment-6390 Sun, 23 Dec 2007 14:49:18 +0000 http://sexualharassmentsupport.org/speakupse/2007/12/21/overly-friendly-pharmacist/#comment-6390 Maybe he's too friendly - and maybe he is testing you to see what you will put up with. Maybe he is STARTING with a smart remark, planning on escalating his advances later. I think that you are smart to be concerned now. It was smart of you to write your story here - it can count as dated documentation as when you were worried, in case you ever need it. Is it safe for you to see if other women have had the same complaint? How have their concerns been handled? I think that you should keep your guard up - look how many stories start with a 'low-level' remark, and then get worse! Take care of yourself. Maybe he’s too friendly - and maybe he is testing you to see what you will put up with. Maybe he is STARTING with a smart remark, planning on escalating his advances later.

I think that you are smart to be concerned now. It was smart of you to write your story here - it can count as dated documentation as when you were worried, in case you ever need it.

Is it safe for you to see if other women have had the same complaint? How have their concerns been handled? I think that you should keep your guard up - look how many stories start with a ‘low-level’ remark, and then get worse! Take care of yourself.

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