This boy has already threatened me
Ghost in the Wind, Maryland
Hello, I’m 11 years old and this year, I started middle school.
This boy (lets call him Tom) started joking around and being silly with me and a friend of mine. That was it, at first.
But IT GOT WORSE! He started to sexually harass us. He was snapping our bras when we walked by. He told us to take off our shirts. He went into the girls bathroom, and said when he did it he felt like a man. He humps the school cellos. To top it off, he said that, when he was through with me, I was going to be a….well a word you should not know….
I reported him to the Vice Principal and Tom got suspended. The V.P. was VERY nice and understanding, and said she wouldn’t mention my name.
She kept her promise, but it was pointless since the day Tom got suspended, he was giving us funny looks and saying, “You told…” (The reason he knew is because me and my friend were the only people who saw his rude doings.)
I feel really bad now that I told. But this boy has already threatened me, saying he is going to start a rumor that me and his friend “did it.” Now I’m scared.
I don’t want to go straight to the V.P. again. Once Tom gets back from suspension, I won’t know what to do! I knew what he was doing to us had to stop, but now my life may be ruined!
I think it’s very important that you immediately report him every time he harasses you. This is not tattle telling!
What he is doing is very serious and must be dealt with seriously, before he ends up raping someone. He is obviously out of control and should be dealt with before he turns into a criminal.
i think you did the right thing also tell just be strong and do not let what people say affect your lifestyle because ìf you do the that is giving the other person the right to keep harassing you and i know your probably saying how can i know what it feels like well hony in like the 3rd grade a boy Im the 5th grade wanted to sleep with Me so i saide NO so ìf saide that i did it with him and i can do it with anyone so i was well a word you chouldn’t know so i had to Im through that 4 3 years but i never gave in and never did anything to provoc it so now Im like my schools saint so do not stress and i hope this helps and sorry Im doing this on my cell so thats it and good luck
if i were u i would punch this guy in the face like i did one time when this guy touched me…..im sorry he did that
Hello,
I am very sorry for what has happened to you, i would highly suggest telling your parents as they really care about you and would hate to have this boy doing things to you. Many people make the mistake by not telling their parents and end up having stress and depression problems. If you are open with your parents they will be able to help you a lot and maybe even get more action done to get rid of the boy. And don’t be afraid report the harassments each time to your V.P. it is the ONLY way that you can get this boy to leave you alone. Don’t punch him as sandra said that is a very bad way to deal with the problem. Good luck and i hope you are well!
I can see that iim replying to this abit late, but i would like to know how things are going with this boy?! I hope that u have done as some said and reported him each time, the little jerk shouldnt get away with it no matter what he ’says’ he’ll do, rumors are rumors and the people that know u will KNOW its a lie, plus people will get over it and start to see what he was telling a bold faced lie about u, keep up the fight! and im so sorry this is happening to u! I wish u all the luck!