My science teacher said he wanted to talk
Dream
My science teacher is 20 and I am 15. He told me to stay after class one day. I asked him “What for?” and he said that he wanted to talk to me about something and to sit down. So I did.
We started talking about school stuff and then he changes the subject and starts talking about my personal life and asking me questions like “What size bra do you wear?”
I felt uncomfortable so I tried to change the subject.
Then he started feeling my thigh. He said, “You know, you are never to young to have sex.”
I got up and headed for the door when he grabs me and throws me against the wall. Then he forces himself on me. I tried my hardest to get him off but he was too strong. Then he unzips my jacket and unbuttons my shirt. I was able to grab a pen from the board, and I stabbed him with it and ran.
Then a few days later after cheerleading, I was in the locker room alone changing and he comes in there. I tried to get as far away from him as I could but I tripped over this gym bag and fell but still tried to get away.
He came up to me and said that “It’s okay.” Then he put his hand up my skirt. I tried to get up but he pinned me down and wouldn’t stop kissing me all over. Then he unbuttoned his pants.
I kicked him in the stomach and ran out to get help. But no one believed me because he is such a nice teacher. So I told my mom and she told the police but he didn’t get fired. Everyday I wonder what would of happened if I didn’t kick him. I sometimes cry when I think about it.
This is one of those stories that leave me speechless, struggling with what to say.
So many harassers and abusers cultivate these images of decency and responsibility that they use to get away with this kind of behavior. They know that, because of their professional positions or titles, people automatically bestow upon them a belief in their character, and the victim will rarely be believed. Teachers, pastors, priests, doctors…society gives them immediate and unquestioning respect. It’s a huge mistake and we do this at our peril.
I hope you are getting some kind of support and help with recovery with this. Thank you for sharing this with us. -Jennifer
It is crazy to think that a man of 20yrs can actually teach school? I am not saying that all men are old enough to teach but most guys that I know that are that age are consumed by sexual thoughts and desires only that from girls.
Some people might say five years isn’t that much but in this case it makes the world of difference. I mean this boy is obviously not mature enough to have all that responsiblity. This really scares me. I am surprised he even graduated that early with how guys are these days.
When I was younger I had several male teachers that make inappropriate comments, gestures, jokes, and touched my shoulders but never to this extreme. Looking back now I should have said something or told on them because I know they did it to other girls. I guess when I was in that situation that is how I justified what was happening was that he was in authority and that no one would believe me. But I bet you aren’t the only one he is doing this to. and if you are then it really sounds like he has a problem and if he is just starting this as his profession if someone doesn’t stop him then there is not telling how many more girls he will do this to? So scary.
Vangogh
I first experienced my horrible harassment by my private tutor who used to come to my house at the age of 13. He used to touch me and make sexually inappropriate comments and at that time I was terrified to tell anyone, so I used to sit in silence. I’m now 22, and today a similar thing happened, except not that extreme, but enough to know it was uncomfortable and made me feel sick like it did 9 years ago. I am hoping it is a one off and I can just avoid it by not attending the lessons. I was in class today having private tutition when the teacher started commenting on my looks. He helped me with work and then said now to thank me you have to give me a picture of yourself… I felt so embarssed, my face was going red and I started shaking and said no, and tried to change the topic back to the study subject but he kept saying why, i want two of different sorts one in a skirt and one in your culture wear. I feel so embarassed and scared again like I was when I was 13. I am just not going to his class again. :’-(
Note: some people seem skeptical that this story is true because they question the reported age of the teacher–and bizarrely, they are blaming the victim for this, rather than the perpetrator.
He may have lied about his age to earn her trust, which is a common tactic of both men and women when they are sexually interested in someone younger than them.
Also, we get stories submitted from all over the world here. We don’t know where Dream is from, but in many countries, a teacher can be this young. –Jennifer
omg that is soooooo gross!!!!!! I’m so glad you were able to stand up for yourself! you kicked and stabed the teacher!? You go girl!
there was no choise to scape from that trable was a good work anice girl