Archive for October, 2009

I have lost everything

Friday, October 30th, 2009

Sarah, Minnesota
     I worked as a night manager for a store owned largely by my sister and her husband.  They owned 90% of the business, and the husband’s parents own the other 10%.  However, the parents have 100% governing rights over the business, so they had full say over what was done and not done.
     In [...]

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My boss thinks harassment is good for business

Monday, October 26th, 2009

Ashley, North Carolina
     I work for an oil company.  I had a customer that kept coming into my workplace for about a year.  He kept saying the most sexually explicit things to me and would come to my work and harass me for hours.  One day he spread my legs apart while saying these really sexually explicit comments. 
     I [...]

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I was fired for saying “No”

Saturday, October 24th, 2009

Lupe, Arkansas    
     I used to work at a construction site until I was fired for rejecting a supervisor who wanted to go out with me.
     When I first started working at the construction firm, there was this man that kept asking me out and I kept saying “No.”     
     He seemed to stop and I thought everything was okay.   [...]

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They are cowards

Wednesday, October 21st, 2009

I will never be the same
     I was working as a temp at a technology company.
     This engineer posted a collage of pictures  on the wall and told me to come look at them.  Then he started asking me personal questions:  Do you have a boyfriend?  Do you see him a lot?  
      I couldn’t see the pictures [...]

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He seeks out vulnerable younger women

Sunday, October 18th, 2009

I hate stalkers
     I suffer from depression, and I joined an online depression group my friend participated in. 
     I shared my stories on online posts, and a guy decided to befriend me.  He was studying counseling at a Christian school.  I didn’t count on him being of any professional help, but I decided there was [...]

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They said my clothes must have led him on

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

Simone, Trinidad
     Yesterday,  my boss approached me with sexual advances.  I was stunned.  I could not believe this was happening.  I did not know what to do, what to say, or who to talk to.  I thought, I  will tell him I did not like what he did and continue to work there.   But the [...]

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I want my life back

Saturday, October 3rd, 2009

Misha
     I am being stalked right now. I struck up a conversation with a co-worker and invited him to see a live band I love. He seemed lonely, but we connected with music. I introduced him to my friends and he seemed to be okay. I wouldn’t date him because he always bragged about fights [...]

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I feel very disrespected

Thursday, October 1st, 2009

Amber
     I’ve been working at my job for a little over a year, and since the second or third month that I’ve been working here I’ve been harassed by my boss.  I was blind to it at first.  It’s a small, private company and I am the only female working in the office.  It is [...]

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