I am sorry to hear about the situation you had with the stalkers. I hope you got rid of him for good, because you don’t need that in your life. I been stalked by a man for seven years, and he still stalkes me. knowing that i am being stalked by a man keeps me paranoid and scared. I try to be as careful as possible when im out int he streets. I don’t go out late by myself. I pay more attention to my surroundings. the man that stalkes me follows me to work, school, and public places. He sit outside my house a lot. He knows my work schedule. When i leave home for work, he comes out of no where. I feel like my life has change since a stalker has come into my life. The most thing that im afraid of is that one day he will enter my home or creep up on me and hurt me.
Today i decided to go on the website on stalkers, and i came up on this site. I read your story, and it easy for me to share my story with someone who is in the same situation as me. I will pray for you and i hope things will work out for you.

Paula: Thanks. Fortunately, I do have a good therapist I’m working with. I’m just not going to trust people online so easily anymore, no matter how good of a person they seem, and no matter if they’re trying to be counselors. This just only confirmed to me that wolves wear sheep’s clothing.

I am so glad you shared some private information about yourself. I am also a victim of psychiatric abuses however I know longer have any affiliation with abusers or abusive company and for years (minus the everyday gang stalking from welfare Ontario.

I am sorry to hear about your group disappearance and hope you can return soon if that of course is what you really want.

vangogh

Thanks very much. My depression became much worse after all of this. But I do have a therapist who’s helping me through this.

Here is an update on the situation:

I finally mustered up the courage to contact his college about his actions. I just can’t believe that someone like this is studying to become a counselor, and I don’t want him to do this to other women and young girls, ESPECIALLY in a real-life setting.

I contacted the registrar and the department chair of the counseling program. After they assured I can be kept anonymous, I told them the whole story as well as send them messages he sent to me. They’re now taking action. Heaven forbid if he becomes a counselor.

I also plan on calling my local police and talking to my college’s law school about a victim project they have. It might be too late to contact them, but I want to make sure that he doesn’t contact me again, especially in retaliation of me contacting his college (if he finds out I contacted them).

So, this is a victory.

I mean seriously that is awful. I hate that you feel like you can’t participate in anymore groups and I probably need to join one of depression groups myself but like you I sure don’t need anymore crazy-stalking men in my life.

My hope for you is that you find a place that you do feel safe posting in.

vangogh