Archive for the 'Same-sex harassment' Category
He told me he likes to have sex with his students
Thursday, August 13th, 2009
John, United Kingdom
I am a gay man and want to share my story.
I was a PhD student and everyone said I could be a great professor or something like that. But everything changed when I went to a small European country to conduct fieldwork. (I was an anthropology major, so I had to [...]
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Posted in Harassment by teachers, Harassment of Men, Retaliation, Backlash, and Victim-blaming, Same-sex harassment, Sexual Harassment in Education, The Absolute Worst: Our Hall of Shame | 5 Comments »
My boss is a total locker room bully
Saturday, March 7th, 2009
Patrick, Oklahoma
I just started a new job and the supervisor continually makes degrading remarks about fellow workers personal odors, sexual preferences, appearances, working habits.
He is a total locker room bully and this week alone has asked me if I like little boys, have I ever considered a sex change operation, that I have [...]
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Posted in Formal Investigations and Litigation, Harassment of Men, Retaliation, Backlash, and Victim-blaming, Same-sex harassment, Sexual Harassment in the Workplace, The Absolute Worst: Our Hall of Shame | 22 Comments »
My new manager offered to take me out back and shoot me
Sunday, November 16th, 2008
Roger, Wisconsin
In 2002, I was working as a consultant for a Chicago based mid-tier IT Consulting and Business Solutions firm.
In response to my expressed dislike of a business decision, my manager, knowing I am gay, offered to pull down his pants and let me use his male endowment as a pacifier.
Aided by an attorney, [...]
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Posted in Formal Investigations and Litigation, Harassment of Men, Retaliation, Backlash, and Victim-blaming, Same-sex harassment, Sexual Harassment in the Workplace | 2 Comments »
He has destroyed my reputation
Monday, May 5th, 2008
Chip, Kansas
A while ago, I was hired at a company that supplies wires for aircraft. The supervisor who interviewed me knew that a fellow employee had recommended me based upon his knowledge of my work ethic.
On my fifth day of employment, I was approached by this supervisor. He stated that him and a fellow employee were going to [...]
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Posted in Harassment of Men, Retaliation, Backlash, and Victim-blaming, Same-sex harassment, Sexual Harassment in the Workplace | 3 Comments »
Everyone knew that it happened only to the boys
Wednesday, November 29th, 2006
Joe, U.S.
At my school, there’s a teacher. The odd teacher. We’ll call him Mr. Q. Mr. Q, since day one of journalism class, has sexually harassed my classmates and I. I just feel like I need to say this, to get it off my chest. I need to talk to some more people about [...]
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Posted in Effects of Harassment, Harassment by teachers, Harassment of Men, Same-sex harassment, Sexual Harassment in Education | 2 Comments »
When I finally spoke up, I was demoted from office manger to doing the laundry
Friday, October 20th, 2006
Logen
I have recently come out of a hostile work environment where a woman (I am also a woman) would constantly put her arm around me, and ask me about my sexuality.
When I finally spoke up re this issue I was demoted from office manger to doing the laundry. I was constantly watched, [...]
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Posted in Harassment by Women, Retaliation, Backlash, and Victim-blaming, Same-sex harassment, Sexual Harassment in the Workplace | 5 Comments »
I wish people could just realize the impact of their actions on others, and themselves.
Friday, June 9th, 2006
Mathue, Eagle River, AK
When I was a freshman in High School I was sexually harassed. A senior in my Chorus classes decided to play pranks on me early in the school. The “pranks” escalated into sexual gestures, and advances, after only a few weeks. The harassment started in the first few weeks of school and [...]
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Posted in Formal Investigations and Litigation, Harassment of Men, Same-sex harassment, Sexual Harassment in Education | 1 Comment »
Sexual harassment and stalking by professors from two Houston universities
Wednesday, July 6th, 2005
Exhausted, Houston, Tx
I was about 37 years old when I enrolled at a large university in Houston to explore a new career path and earn prerequisites for graduate school; but instead of starting a new journey, I suffered gender and sexual harassment by a number of professors in several departments.
Among others, various [...]
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Posted in Effects of Harassment, Harassment by Women, Harassment by teachers, Health Effects, Retaliation, Backlash, and Victim-blaming, Same-sex harassment, Sexual Harassment in Education, Stalking, The Absolute Worst: Our Hall of Shame | 7 Comments »