Archive for the 'Effects of Harassment' Category

Be loud!! Stand up!

Monday, March 1st, 2010

Crystal, Pennsylvania
     Let me start with I am 1 of 5 female employees at a painting company. The company is owned by two men. I will call them Bevis and Butthead. Bevis is the president of the company and also the father of my boyfriend (of the last 9+years).   Butthead is the HR man, [...]

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He will do it again

Thursday, February 25th, 2010

Miki
     I was 22. Two weeks into my new job in state government there was a work event with an open bar. My married 34 year old boss offered to drive me and another girl so we could drink a little. I unfortunately got wasted. After dropping the other girl off, he took me home [...]

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My new supervisor was eager to support me

Saturday, January 30th, 2010

Faith, New York
     I was so excited about my new position! I was to be Assistant Principal Operations at a prestigious High School in New York City; right off the east side highway. I started working there in Aug 2008. Having ten years experience as a teacher and advanced degrees in educational administration; I [...]

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I cannot remain silent

Friday, January 15th, 2010

Mary, Georgia, USA and Amsterdam, NL
     I joined a global, primarily male dominated electronics company 3 years ago.  My intention was to continue my career in a productive way with a global company in whom opportunities were plentiful for seasoned executives who delivered/exceeded expectations. To my great misfortune, I reported to what can only be described as a deeply insecure [...]

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My teachers never did anything to help

Tuesday, January 12th, 2010

Becca, Canada    
     This happened 10 years ago but it still affects me.
     In junior high (grade 7-9) I was sexually harassed because I answered a question. I was happy and confident and liked to answer questions if I could in school. I made sure no one else wanted to answer first and then I would [...]

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He would look down our shirts

Friday, December 11th, 2009

Jude
     It was my freshman year of high school that I was taking a science class with a “notoriously perverted” teacher, or so I’d been warned by peers.  Regardless, I needed the credit, and at a small high school, he was the only educator teaching the class.
     He proved to be overly casual for a teacher, [...]

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I was singled out

Wednesday, December 9th, 2009

Colleen, Texas
     I worked in an environment of approximately eighty people on my shift/department.  During this time, I was repeatedly subjected to lewd jokes, sexual comments and gestures, physical contact, all of it unwelcome and disgusting. There was five men doing this to me.
     I was one of three women, the other two married with [...]

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I have lost everything

Friday, October 30th, 2009

Sarah, Minnesota
     I worked as a night manager for a store owned largely by my sister and her husband.  They owned 90% of the business, and the husband’s parents own the other 10%.  However, the parents have 100% governing rights over the business, so they had full say over what was done and not done.
     In [...]

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My boss thinks harassment is good for business

Monday, October 26th, 2009

Ashley, North Carolina
     I work for an oil company.  I had a customer that kept coming into my workplace for about a year.  He kept saying the most sexually explicit things to me and would come to my work and harass me for hours.  One day he spread my legs apart while saying these really sexually explicit comments. 
     I [...]

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I was fired for saying “No”

Saturday, October 24th, 2009

Lupe, Arkansas    
     I used to work at a construction site until I was fired for rejecting a supervisor who wanted to go out with me.
     When I first started working at the construction firm, there was this man that kept asking me out and I kept saying “No.”     
     He seemed to stop and I thought everything was okay.   [...]

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