Archive for the 'Retaliation, Backlash, and Victim-blaming' Category
Be loud!! Stand up!
Monday, March 1st, 2010
Crystal, Pennsylvania
Let me start with I am 1 of 5 female employees at a painting company. The company is owned by two men. I will call them Bevis and Butthead. Bevis is the president of the company and also the father of my boyfriend (of the last 9+years). Butthead is the HR man, [...]
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He will do it again
Thursday, February 25th, 2010
Miki
I was 22. Two weeks into my new job in state government there was a work event with an open bar. My married 34 year old boss offered to drive me and another girl so we could drink a little. I unfortunately got wasted. After dropping the other girl off, he took me home [...]
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My new supervisor was eager to support me
Saturday, January 30th, 2010
Faith, New York
I was so excited about my new position! I was to be Assistant Principal Operations at a prestigious High School in New York City; right off the east side highway. I started working there in Aug 2008. Having ten years experience as a teacher and advanced degrees in educational administration; I [...]
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I cannot remain silent
Friday, January 15th, 2010
Mary, Georgia, USA and Amsterdam, NL
I joined a global, primarily male dominated electronics company 3 years ago. My intention was to continue my career in a productive way with a global company in whom opportunities were plentiful for seasoned executives who delivered/exceeded expectations. To my great misfortune, I reported to what can only be described as a deeply insecure [...]
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He would look down our shirts
Friday, December 11th, 2009
Jude
It was my freshman year of high school that I was taking a science class with a “notoriously perverted” teacher, or so I’d been warned by peers. Regardless, I needed the credit, and at a small high school, he was the only educator teaching the class.
He proved to be overly casual for a teacher, [...]
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I was singled out
Wednesday, December 9th, 2009
Colleen, Texas
I worked in an environment of approximately eighty people on my shift/department. During this time, I was repeatedly subjected to lewd jokes, sexual comments and gestures, physical contact, all of it unwelcome and disgusting. There was five men doing this to me.
I was one of three women, the other two married with [...]
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I have lost everything
Friday, October 30th, 2009
Sarah, Minnesota
I worked as a night manager for a store owned largely by my sister and her husband. They owned 90% of the business, and the husband’s parents own the other 10%. However, the parents have 100% governing rights over the business, so they had full say over what was done and not done.
In [...]
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I was fired for saying “No”
Saturday, October 24th, 2009
Lupe, Arkansas
I used to work at a construction site until I was fired for rejecting a supervisor who wanted to go out with me.
When I first started working at the construction firm, there was this man that kept asking me out and I kept saying “No.”
He seemed to stop and I thought everything was okay. [...]
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They said my clothes must have led him on
Wednesday, October 14th, 2009
Simone, Trinidad
Yesterday, my boss approached me with sexual advances. I was stunned. I could not believe this was happening. I did not know what to do, what to say, or who to talk to. I thought, I will tell him I did not like what he did and continue to work there. But the [...]
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I’m Bad!
Wednesday, September 9th, 2009
Justme, California
Well it all started back in November of 2008 when this new employee was training at my job. He would make comments at me, such as “Sexy mama,” and kept asking me out for drinks. On several occasions we went out as a group after work and he would sit next to me [...]
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