Archive for the 'Retaliation, Backlash, and Victim-blaming' Category
They had a bet to see who would sleep with me first
Sunday, May 11th, 2008
Sydni, Tennessee
I was a new assistant district attorney. I thought I had been hired for my skills potential.
After working a while, I noticed the boss had an particular interest in me. He held my chair at meetings and singled me out for attention. I was the “golden girl” who could do no wrong.
My […]
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He has destroyed my reputation
Monday, May 5th, 2008
Chip, Kansas
A while ago, I was hired at a company that supplies wires for aircraft. The supervisor who interviewed me knew that a fellow employee had recommended me based upon his knowledge of my work ethic.
On my fifth day of employment, I was approached by this supervisor. He stated that him and a fellow employee were going to […]
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Posted in Sexual Harassment in the Workplace, Retaliation, Backlash, and Victim-blaming, Same-sex harassment, Sexual Harassment of Men | 2 Comments »
“I get drunk, get used to it”
Thursday, April 24th, 2008
Kelly, Wisconsin
I had just started working at a bar about a month before.
I had only worked two shifts and therefore I had only met the manager and two of the other bartenders. There was a staff meeting one Saturday afternoon to introduce all three of the new employees. This was the first time that […]
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I ended up dropping out of school
Friday, March 14th, 2008
Lynndy
When I was a sophomore in High School, two guys whom I thought were my friends began making comments about my figure and how I was just really gorgeous.
I was like, “Thanks for the compliments.”
But then the next day they both came up to me and started grabbing my breasts and other inappropriate places.
[…]
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Posted in Sexual Harassment in Education, Retaliation, Backlash, and Victim-blaming, Health Effects, Formal Investigations and Litigation | 3 Comments »
She says that I am “tormenting her”
Thursday, January 31st, 2008
Kellie, Florida
I am a female Emergency Department physician. I became friends with a coworker, a female Nurse Practitioner employed by the same medical staffing service for which I work.
At first, it seemed we had a great deal in common: both had 3 kids, struggled with long hours, stressful work, childcare, etc. much the […]
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Posted in Retaliation, Backlash, and Victim-blaming, Stalking | 2 Comments »
The tribal casinos are without any accountability
Monday, January 28th, 2008
Lisa, California
I went to work for a Native American gaming resort. I was assaulted by my boss then fired when I didn’t submit to him. This is from my attorney:
My lady client in particular has an incredible story to tell….she went on a business trip with a team from *******. The head of Human Resources […]
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This is all so confusing and infuriating
Friday, December 21st, 2007
Patty B
My daughter is being harassed at school by two classmates (she’s a sophomore in high school).
She has been groped on the behind, and one boy shoved her into the lap of another. When this happened the other boy started “grinding” on her and moaning.
We have reported this to the school administrator, […]
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Posted in Sexual Harassment in Education, Retaliation, Backlash, and Victim-blaming | 3 Comments »
My commander advised me to learn how to keep quiet
Sunday, December 16th, 2007
Christina, Illinois
I was a recruiter for the National Guard for almost 3 years. I always carried myself with a level of dignity and self-respect, mostly to deter the Army’s perverts from approaching me. I was never a “sweetheart” and frequently counseled young female soldiers on the dangers of trying too hard to be liked, […]
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I feel very isolated and alone
Monday, November 12th, 2007
Monica, Midwest USA
My boss approached me asking if I was single, stating it was ok to mess around even if I was not. I dismissed his charges, and then was sanctioned twice for issues I had with the computer system, which were not my fault at work over the next two weeks. My boss refused […]
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I’ve been told my being single means I’m “up for grabs”
Saturday, August 18th, 2007
Nickii, New York
I’m an educator. What really disturbs me is my employers didn’t believe one woman when she filed a complaint against the man who later harassed me. Then after she left, I was assigned to work with the harasser. My employer put me in a terrible position, I feel.
It only took him 1 […]
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