Archive for the ' Stalking' Category
I’m scared again
Monday, August 6th, 2007
Scared Grace, Texas
After over a year in an abusive relationship, I left for good. Never to return. I moved in with a girlfriend who had a spare room, and tried to move on with my life.
One night, I came home late from a night out. I walked into my bedroom, turned on the light and found my […]
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How long does it take to recover from being stalked?
Wednesday, July 18th, 2007
Valerie, Illinois
In the winter of ‘01, I was working as a bartender in Texas. An older man began coming in every day, but no one ever talked to him. He was a bit unkempt, nervous, unshaven, long-haired, and I felt a little sorry for him. So, I struck up a conversation with him one […]
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Unlucky enough to be stalked twice
Saturday, June 9th, 2007
V, Oklahoma
I’ve been unlucky enough to be stalked twice.
The first was a fellow student in college piano class. His parents knew mine, but I was unaware of his existence beyond the kid that sat at the back. His father came in where my mother worked, excited that this guy and I were going […]
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Always with a camera in his hand
Tuesday, March 13th, 2007
Nikki, Connecticut
I just started a new job at a large agency. Within a couple of weeks I noticed a male coworker constantly walking by my office and staring in. At first I thought, “OK, you’re a woman, men stare” or “OK, you’re new, people are curious as to who you are.” But then I noticed […]
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I became really depressed
Tuesday, March 13th, 2007
Randy, North Carolina
I was harassed by a nurse who was doing therapy on my neck at my doctor’s office. The nurse started flirting with me, touching me inappropriatally in a suggestive way, smiling at me in a way to lead me on. She went through my personal medical records began calling my house and hanging up when […]
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I’m worried that this is going to escalate
Thursday, January 11th, 2007
Evan
I’m a male and a junior in college.
Well, my freshman year I started receiving email from a girl who seemed to recall seeing me several times. I replied politely but thought her behavior was rather odd. Without me having said little more than a short email response, she was giving me gifts– which included […]
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Posted in Sexual Harassment in Education, Stalking, Sexual Harassment of Men, Sexual Harassment by Women | 10 Comments »
I’m worried that this is going to escalate
Thursday, January 11th, 2007
Evan
I’m a male and a junior in college.
Well, my freshman year I started receiving email from a girl who seemed to recall seeing me several times. I replied politely but thought her behavior was rather odd. Without me having said little more than a short email response, she was giving me gifts– which included […]
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I don’t know what to do anymore
Friday, December 15th, 2006
Kim, Massachusetts
It started with the interoffice IM system. I got IM’s from a kid that said I was the woman of his dreams and I was beautiful. I told him I have a boyfriend and I wasn’t looking for anyone there. I kept turning all conversation to work. He continued to IM me and […]
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I don’t know what to do anymore
Friday, December 15th, 2006
Kim, Massachusetts
It started with the interoffice IM system. I got IM’s from a kid that said I was the woman of his dreams and I was beautiful. I told him I have a boyfriend and I wasn’t looking for anyone there. I kept turning all conversation to work. He continued to IM me and […]
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Now I can’t walk in my own neighborhood
Sunday, December 10th, 2006
Rachel, Delaware
I was 12 years old, and was walking over to a girlfriends house 7 blocks down from me.
On my way a Jeep thing like car pulled over next to me. I gave the man a nervous smile and walked on. In retrospect I think that that was a huge mistake! He starts […]
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